Recommendations for parenting in the advice of a psychologist

 

 

Parenting is a very serious issue. Few parents have the talent of educator and mentor and friend at the same time. That's why it often happens that parents and children absolutely do not hear and do not understand each other. That is why it is so important for each parent to receive basic recommendations on parenting from a competent psychologist and teacher.

A common mistake parents make is that for them, their own child is an extension of their own Self. This is where the rejection of the child's individuality comes from, which is embedded in him from the moment of conception. After all, the baby is not only a genetic personality, but also psychology, mind, worldview, which will become fundamental in his life – everything is individual. Therefore, parents need to learn how to accept their child exactly as he is.

Learning to see the strengths in him, to put them at the foundation of the upbringing of the baby – that's the task of parents.

The child should know and feel that you are faithful in your love for him, that in any situation he will be able to rely on your support and love. The first thing that children do not forgive is betrayal, when a parent, trying to hide the costs of upbringing, his inability to treat his child, lack of attention to him, accuses his baby of all sins.

Parents should be consistent in their child's upbringing. Mom and dad or parents and grandparents are not in the same family, we pull and push, which “tears” the child apart, then allowing him something, then forbidding it.

Separately, parents need to be aware of the punishment, which should be meaningful, consistent with the child's misconduct, and not the parent's mood. It is necessary to condemn the offense itself, not your baby. Tell your child not “YOU're bad,” but “You're good, but you did something bad, I don't like what you did.” so the child will know that he is loved, but the offense committed by him is unworthy and should not be done so.

It is a pity that our country has not developed psychological preparation for such a crucial step as raising a child. After all, many parents are aware of the wrongness of the steps they are taking in raising their baby. But how to do the right thing is a question that can be very difficult to answer on your own. Therefore, it is worth advising all parents, both those who have already taken place and those who are just about to become parents, to read the advice of psychologists and classic works on parenting. 1xBet No Deposit Free Bet. New players can get a $5 no-deposit free bet with the 1xbet free promo code today use it on sports or casino games. Winnings are withdrawable after 3x wagering. No deposit required, but account verification is needed. Max cashout is $50. Available in selected regions. 18+. Limited to one per household. Terms apply. Try 1xBet risk-free and keep what you win with this exclusive offer.